Arlene Desamito

Arlene remembered that prior to her pregnancy, there had been a suspicion she might have Turner Syndrome. After meeting with a specialist, it was confirmed that she did not have it. However, from that point forward, her heart condition was closely monitored, especially when she became pregnant.

Pregnancy was incredibly challenging for Arlene. She experienced difficulty breathing, high blood pressure, constant coughing, and swollen legs. Even the simplest tasks became exhausting. Every day was a balance between working and managing her symptoms.

The most difficult challenges she faced were the constant shortness of breath, dizziness, and extreme tiredness. She managed them by getting lots of rest, taking gentle walks whenever possible, and leaning on the full support of her husband, who had been her rock throughout the journey. Her OB-GYN, Dr. Sassi, was incredibly supportive, along with Dr. Joa and Dr. Massi, who offered her valuable advice and care.

Her experience at the COB clinic was very positive. Arlene felt that Dr. Isabelle and Dr. Kiess were both very knowledgeable and always made her feel like she was in good hands. The nurses, especially Nurse Amy, were incredibly helpful, always available, and treated her with kindness and compassion. Throughout her pregnancy, she truly felt cared for.

What stood out most about her care were the regular follow-ups. When she was hospitalized for 10 days, the COB doctors responded immediately to any concerns and never hesitated to run the necessary tests. Their attentiveness made her feel safe and confident that she was receiving the best care possible.

Looking back, Arlene believed that her support system—both medically and personally—made the biggest difference. Having doctors and nurses who genuinely cared, alongside her husband’s constant support and encouragement, helped her endure the toughest days. Keeping a positive mindset and focusing on the health of her babies also gave her strength.

When asked what advice she would offer to someone going through a similar experience, Arlene said: “Take things one day at a time. Trust your medical team and don’t be afraid to speak up about how you feel. Surround yourself with people who uplift you, and never underestimate the power of rest, gentle movement, and emotional support. It’s not easy, but with the right care and love, you’ll get through it stronger than you think.”